Many are skeptical when it comes to the concept of change, and that includes myself. As someone whom is stubborn and so set on loving the way life is right now, I struggle to picture myself in a way that isn’t the current me.
But, it isn’t just us humans that are constantly changing. When I looked outside my window this morning, I saw the sapling that I planted 6 years ago, which is now a thick-trunked tree with fire red and orange leaves tumbling to the ground; waiting to be crunched upon. The beauty of the autumnal scene had me not only in awe of the colours, but also in awe of the way in which nature operates so seamlessly. I looked at the tree again, but this time pictured the branches bare, in a dressing gown of cobwebs and iced with frost from a cold night. I cannot wait for winter and the changes in the environment that will come!
On these thoughts of change, I started to think about the future. Yes, I smashed down the walls of stone I have around the topic and actually invited it in for a while. It is mind-blowing to think of the amount of people I will meet in the future, the amount of places I will travel and the amount of new things I will try.
If my 12 year old self could see where I am now, never would she expect to see me at a different school for sixth form, with a drivers license, or to have a niece, or a bearded dragon. But hey, it happened! Change is fun, because it near enough translates to the phrase: ‘Expect the unexpected.’
From these few moments of intense thought, I have a new outlook on change. The more things change, the more you can say happened in your life. And that’s pretty great. I want my life, in retrospect, to be so full of twists and turns that I feel travel sick just looking back on it.
But whilst it is vital to believe that change is good- so you can move with the flow and more importantly against it- it is also important to remember that some constants are great too. Of course some people will be a constant in your life, and the same goes for places and events. I’m not saying we should get rid of the constants- for this is what we find utter joy in- but to invite change every once in a while wouldn’t be a terrible idea, either.
From now I want to seek to embrace change, rather than fear it. I want to live in the moment, accept opportunities and of course, make my own.
Think of change as a chapter of your life, not a challenge of it.